Inspiration and plan for 2021
/by Ani/
For six days
now I've been putting off writing my "bucket list" , things for 2021 that I want to inspire me, follow and fulfill, not 100% of course, we're normal people. That's why
this post is for inspiration, personally . I decided to write it here in front of everyone, so that I have even greater incentive, and it might help you too.
I won't forget about myself . I don't know how people who read regularly do it, I don't have time for anything. Twice last year I wished for time to read books and watch movies and I fell ill to make it happen. So
this year I will give myself time to be healthy.
I will not blame myself as a parent and I will be far from a perfect mother . This means that I am a normal person who wants a happy child and I will not compete and compare as much as I can.
I will keep to the hours per week - I was inspired by Joanna from @mettaspacebg and her great plan for the hours she wants per week, here are some of the ideas:
2 hours of yoga
2 hours of strength training
2 hours a week for a walk alone or meeting a friend
at least once a week to sleep in and watch a movie
2-3 hours to tidy up my house. I recently came across a great post that a messy house actually creates a sense of tension, guilt, and anxiety, as if we haven't gotten anything done, and our mind wants it to be tidy. So I challenge myself to tidy up more often and have a clean home.
To clear out my things , my favorite word is "
declutter ". Every month I will fix something and refresh my possessions. It's no coincidence that our planner starts with the message for January "all you need is less", but here we are talking about awareness, not deprivation.
To take care of Stan (love) . We work together with working hours from 10-22, every day, at dinner we talk about posts and stock and my ideas for dresses, we have a crazy child who melts our camps, we cook, clean (not so much), we go out every free time, so it's important to make time for our halves. To talk about ourselves or to be silent.
To look at each other and listen. To have dinner just the two of us . Oh, and I'll listen to his film ideas and help him realize them - as long as he wants.
Fear in 2020 was too much for all of us. I was in ebb and flow, sometimes I was in a crazy panic, sometimes I was calm, but one thing is clear - we do not control life and I will try
not to want to control everything.
In terms of work, I want
to delegate, to give, to make people smile all the time . If you are reading here, thank you for being with us in the wonderful moments, in the mistakes and in the development. No, we do not have big ambitions, but we do have big dreams! And I will work for
"Vintage Summer on Three Seas", ahhaha, that is, the international markets. I want nice, coquettish German women to fan themselves with our dresses and Greek Ostrovites to smile at me :)
To sleep outdoors, without a roof, under the stars at least once.
To walk more barefoot - two full days and 10 days during the day .
To listen to the people around me, really. I'm reading a book called "The Non-Violent Communication", I'll share if it has any results (here, I'm reading it too, but slowly).
To read
5 books that aren't for children, hahaha. People read 30-40 a year, but I set a realistic target for myself to be happy.
To climb
5 mountain peaks - we are mountaineers and this is my place, high up, tired from walking and my shoulders hurting from the heavy backpack. So at least 5, like books, hahaha.
To eat clean , for pleasure, not to kill time. Less sugar, oh, mother.
To listen to music, truly, with my soul.
It's your turn. Examine yourself. Think about your ideas. Act, but without unnecessary tension!
This is my first reading. If I think of anything else, I'll add.
Smiles and a healthy 2021!
Annie
